Most of us deal with stress to
varying degrees every day. Yet we all seem to have different levels of
tolerance for handling it.
For some, stress is easier to take
(or they even enjoy it!) but others have a lower tolerance so they will feel
the physical effects of stress more quickly, and more harshly, throughout their
life.
Mismanaged stress wreaks havoc on the
mind and body. The Canadian Men's Health Foundation refers to it as a
"silent killer" that can lead to heart disease, high blood pressure,
chest pain and an irregular heartbeat. The American Institute of Stress
believes it's the cause of 60 percent of all human illnesses(1) and
three-quarters of all visits to the doctor.
Fortunately, the reverse is also
true: When properly managed, stress can be highly beneficial.
The key is learning how much stress
you can handle and then develop effective strategies to recover from it.
If you feel like you get easily
thrown off by stress, the good news is that you can do something about it! You
can take steps to improve your stress tolerance
How can stress affect the brain?
When we are
stressed, our bodies produce stress hormones that keep our brains from
performing at their peak. Research by neurobiologist Amy Arnsten at Yale
Medical School(2)
has shown that too much of the stress hormone dopamine, for instance, inhibits
the prefrontal cortex.
Too much stress
can result in a poor decision-making, memory problems and an inability to
control impulses and regulate behavior, not to mention the physical effects on
the body.
At the same time,
stress hormones activate the area of the amygdala which is connected to our
quick, fight-or-flight reactions that help us respond to threats and keep us
safe. These include quick, reflexive thinking and action – it is not a place of
nuanced thinking – as well as increased heart rate and breathing. In a
dangerous situation, this is what we need.
But most of the
time, we’d like to connect to the prefrontal cortex for a more reasoned response.
In fact, research
has shown that when stress remains over longer periods, it actually causes
nerve damage in the prefrontal cortex. Arnsten’s study showed that this damage
can begin after only a week of stress.
And, not
surprisingly, chronic stress (3) has been
linked to greater risk of health problems such as heart disease, weight gain,
digestive problems, sleep disorders, anxiety and depression.
In fact,
believing that we have some control over our stress is actually one of the ways
to increase stress tolerance.
Even when we
can’t control external circumstances, which is often, there are things we can
do. Her In fact, believing that we have some control
over our stress is actually one of the ways to increase stress tolerance.
Even when we
can’t control external circumstances, which are often, there are things we can
do. Here are 8 of them
Spend Time With Yourself:
Ask yourself: “Am
I giving too much to others and not enough for myself? Do I need to take time
to pamper myself?” If the answers are “yes,” refuse to feel guilty about it and
do it!
If you feel
guilty when you do something enjoyable for yourself, chances are you will stop
doing it. Ultimately, you lose. You may be living your life through other
people’s standards and expectations. Take control of your guilt-producing
thoughts. Focus on the benefits to you and your family that will occur when you
are a more relaxed and energized person.
Find opportunity in the challenge:
Stress makes us
single-minded, so negatives loom large and positives fly under the radar.
"Stress is designed to focus our attention or energy so we can overcome
the threat," Ballard says.
That intensity
works for time-sensitive, high-stakes issues, but most stressors are less
immediate. In those cases, focusing on the problem exclusively is overwhelming
and unproductive. Instead, look for new opportunities that this stressor
creates, such as ways to make your company more efficient or improve
communication.
"People who
have trouble bouncing back often see that challenge as completely
insurmountable," Ballard says. An optimistic attitude will help you
tolerate a lot more stress with ease
Spend Your Time with Your Family Friends:
Building stronger
family boundaries will help decrease your level of stress and increase the
level of empathy, love and support around you. Establish “Family Dinner
Fridays” when everyone will prepare and eat a healthy meal. Sit at a table and
share a meaningful conversation with your loved ones. No TV or cell phones
allowed!
Build in recovery time:
Our bodies
evolved to tolerate stress in short bursts; to put all our energy toward a
threat, then relax again when it's gone. Breaks between stressors allow us to
recover, but few people take them today. "Many workplaces function in a
state of chronic stress," Ballard says, leaving us depleted and
short-fused.
Stress-induced
smoking, drinking, overeating, or Internet surfing only compound the problem.
Those activities feel stress-relieving, but they don’t reset your system. To
unwind effectively, try active hobbies such as sports or volunteer work,
tech-free relaxation like meditation, yoga, or reading,
and sleep at least six
hours a night. The more you choose those activities, the better you'll cope
with stress.
Walk every day:
Walk by yourself
or with a friend (4) Talk about
possibilities, not problems.
Taking a walk in the part could
actually shift your brain into a calmer state, according to recent research. A UK study found that walking through green spaces can put the
brain into a meditative state. The act is found to trigger “involuntary
attention (5)
A number of
studies have found time outdoors to relieve stress, and also improve memory and
attention: Even when it’s cold, taking a walk outside can improve memory and
attention span by up to 20 percent. Walking outdoors has also been shown to
improve energy levels. Try walking outside for 20-30 minutes several times per
week to alleviate stress and give your mind a boost.
Daily Exercise:
Exercise will do
more to reduce stress hormones and chemicals (7) in our body
than any other activity.
Keep Focus On Impportant Goals:
One cause of
internal stress is not paying attention to what you want or what really matters
to you. If you don’t feel good about what you’re doing, you can be stressed
even in a low-pressure situation. Conversely, if you value what you’re doing,
then you feel good about it and are better able to handle any difficulty that
comes with that. Also, checking in with what matters to you helps activates
that CEO of your brain, the prefrontal cortex. So it’s worth figuring out what
you value (8)
if you want to better manage your stress.
See Also:
- How can be stress effects on Health
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- How to Make the world a better place
- How to improve your self esteem
Allow yourself 8 Hours of interrupted Sleep:
If you can’t find
time sleep for 8 hours(9)
take a power-nap during a day. This strategy is vital for reducing stress. When
you go to bed, leave your cell phone outside of the bedroom or at least turn it
off. Listen to some relaxing music. Light some candles. Think about something
pleasant. If you live in a city, use earplugs to avoid being disturbed by loud
noise. If you don’t have the ability to sleep for 8 hours a night, take 1-2
power-naps throughout the day. It will help you recharge your batteries and
allow for new, fresh energy, creativity and positive mood..
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